tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920411020784409759.post7626234766095719112..comments2023-09-04T06:50:00.127-07:00Comments on Hang Art: Everything Under the Sun...Jerry Carlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10024087888949143035noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920411020784409759.post-90463482768875289702011-04-09T05:44:58.181-07:002011-04-09T05:44:58.181-07:00Clipped wings has it right. ... I have a close fri...Clipped wings has it right. ... I have a close friend who went through therapy, (oh, yeah what I should have done..!<br />She once told me that phrase "I'm sorry you feel that way" it is one of the best.. Someone else cannot argue about your own feelings.. so when your confronted with 'You make me so mad' I could spit" you say, I'm sorry you feel that way..? Hey, it works great with my husband .. end of story!Barbra Joanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08263982645593300365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920411020784409759.post-35933420240191771952011-04-08T06:37:45.517-07:002011-04-08T06:37:45.517-07:00Thanks, Dan, it is a bit of a foreign concept and ...Thanks, Dan, it is a bit of a foreign concept and I have to remind myself of it all the time!Jerry Carlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10024087888949143035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920411020784409759.post-7390404495177905252011-04-08T04:34:41.460-07:002011-04-08T04:34:41.460-07:00Re the last two paragraphs: This is a timely post...Re the last two paragraphs: This is a timely post for me, and there is a lot here to think about. Thank you.Dan Kenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13130079803891606515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920411020784409759.post-53522250891630438502011-04-08T02:44:22.730-07:002011-04-08T02:44:22.730-07:00Proudly wearing all my callouses, defensive shield...Proudly wearing all my callouses, defensive shields, and barriers. And? I don't and am not a liar either. Must be 101% out there, I guess. LOLOLAutumn Leaveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04010044052621228719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920411020784409759.post-38796881168013123992011-04-07T15:17:33.597-07:002011-04-07T15:17:33.597-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920411020784409759.post-5783771536158183432011-04-07T10:49:59.285-07:002011-04-07T10:49:59.285-07:00This is brilliant Jerry and is what real freedom i...This is brilliant Jerry and is what real freedom is all about. <br /><br />D.H. Lawrence came the closest to writing about sex, love and REAL intimacy that I have ever read and I will continue to use him as my yardstick until somebody writes something better.Constance Stanza Extravaganza Extraordinairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14782289482858750397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920411020784409759.post-55191733689976530392011-04-07T05:53:40.941-07:002011-04-07T05:53:40.941-07:00Many years ago, when I was trying to save a marria...Many years ago, when I was trying to save a marriage, I was enlightened to the fact that when I am talking about my partner to my partner, never use the word you. Alway use only the words me or I, because I am really talking about what I cannot live with or what I need. Saying you puts the other person in defensive mode, say me or I gets the problem solved. Great post.Yvonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11506141901518297798noreply@blogger.com